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In Vogue: Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen named Best Dressed siblings of 2011

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THE most fashionable accessory in Hollywood this year isn't a bag or a shoe - it's a sister, if Vogue's best dressed list is anything to go by.

The fashion bible has released its annual list of best dressed celebs and this year it's all about fashion-savvy siblings. 

Love or hate their extreme sense of style, Olsen twins Mary-Kate and Ashley snagged the top title - and the cover - of the prestigious special issue.

Putting the 25-year-old blonde bombshells on the front was "kind of a no-brainer" said Vogue Fashion News Director, Mark Holgate.

"Are there any more chic, stylish, cool, and original sisters than Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen? They are incredibly stylish," Holgate said.

"We started thinking about all of the great sister acts who are around right now who look really good together but also look good apart," he said.

"There was just something interesting about seeing how siblings' style can be so different and unique."

Holgate said the list celebrated the contrast as much as the similarity in sibling style.

The widely-read edition included UK's Middleton sisters, celebrity singers Beyonce and Solange Knowles and a host of other genetically-blessed siblings in its top 10 Dynamic Duos list.

The youngest members of the elite pack were actresses Dakota, 17, and Elle Fanning, 13, who took out second place.

Coming in third was trendy French Courtin-Clarin foursome, the grand-daughters of Clarins cosmetics company founder, Jacques Courtin-Clarin.

 

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Sri Lanka Clothing

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Sri Lanka Clothing has caught up quite a fashion now. Moving with the trend, the Sri Lankans have kept their heritage as well. Clothing of Sri Lankans is a perfect blend of the eastern and western fashion. Jeans is quite a common and usual dress for the youngsters. Until and unless it is a formal occasion, Sri Lankans do not give much importance to the color of the dresses they wear.

Sri Lankan Clothing includes sari, skirts and blouses for ladies and jeans and trousers for men. However the National Clothing in Sri Lanka for women is white sarong and a white shirt till knees. Sri Lanka Clothing nowadays is quite influenced by the media as in the television mainly. The fashion magazines also work wonders in this case by giving the latest information on fashion. The fashion icons of Colombo play an important role as well. 

Most popular Sri Lanka Clothing are beachwear and batik. Handmade batik printed clothes have gained popularity all over the world and are also exported from Sri Lanka to various places in the world. In Sri Lanka shopping is a great fun as you do not need pots of money to get the latest fashion in hand. You just need to know the fashion and what all you want to buy.

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Katia Elizarova to model for Max Studio fashion house

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Luxury women’s fashion house Max Studio is proud to announce International Model Katia Elizarova as Max Studio brand ambassador and face of the global fashion house. Katia follows in the footsteps of other celebrity faces of the brand which have included celebrated beauties Rosie Huntington-Whitely and Lily Cole.

Katia’s endorsement of the fashion house will coincide with the launch of Max Studio’s first boutique store in the UK, opening on Westbourne Grove in London this November. The new store is part of the renowned brands continuing expansion into new markets that so far sees its clothing sold at over 7,000 retail points in the US and Asia.

As the face of the fashion label Katia will become a spokesperson for the brand participating in a series of high-profile events on behalf of Max Studio, opening catwalk shows and appearing in advertising campaigns.

Katia Elizarova, International Model, commented: “This is a fantastic opportunity to represent a fashion label that embodies distinguished beauty. Max Studio has achieved great success internationally by focussing on a luxurious style that always results in head-turning clothing and I’m very proud to be working with such a creative company. It’s an exciting time for me to be involved with the brand as it continues its international expansion in launching a London boutique and I look forward to working with them to tell that story.”

Leon Max, Founder and Head Designer, Max Studio, said: “Katia Elizarova is a radiant young woman who embodies modern femininity and style to perfection. I know she will portray the style and essence of Max Studio exquisitely and is the perfect match for us.”

“It is a great time to launch our flagship store in London at the height of the fashion season and I look forward to invigorating the UK market with my collections,” he continued.

Max Studio was founded in 1979 and is renowned a luxury fashion chain available in Max Studio retail stores, department stores, and on-line. The fashion house has over 40 of its own retail stores in the U.S. and over 50 stores across Asia.

Katia Elizarova has worked with some of the world's leading design houses, fashion brands, photographers, directors, magazines and salons including: Commes des Garcons, Guy Laroche, Calvin Klein, Swarovski, Philip Treacy, Fornarina, Victoria's Secret, Made by Niki, Triumph, Toni & Guy, Babyliss, GHD, Trevor Sorbie, L'Oréal, and Wella. 

She was first spotted on the street in her home town by modelling scout Guia Jikidze, who also discovered Natalia Vodianova, Eugenia Volodina, Irina Shayk and Elena Melnik. Katia has also addressed the Oxford Union, and regularly supplies interviews and comment on modelling and fashion.

Russian born International Model Katia Elizarova comes to the UK via Paris, Milan, Tokyo and Hamburg. Celebrated for her natural golden hair and enchantingly vivacious nature Katia has become a darling of major brands, opening shows, hosting events and engaging media. Some recent highlights include campaigns for Rimmel London, Esprit, Triumph, GHD, Toni & Guy, and launching George Davies' luxury fashion brand GIVe.

Max Studio is a global corporation producing leading-edge fashion design for modern women. Sold through Max Studio stores, boutiques, web and major department stores around the world, Max Studio offers top quality fabrics and innovative styles.

 

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Prada to release jewelry range

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Italian fashion house Prada is readying its first jewelry collection for the holiday season.

According to Women's Wear Daily, pieces -- including necklaces, cuffs, earrings, bracelets and brooches in everything from patent to crocodile leather -- will be priced from from $448, going on sale in November.

Peek at the designs on the Fashionista blog at http://bit.ly/vr9TZI, or see them on French actress Léa Seydoux in Prada's latest resort collection video at http://youtu.be/xmjauFgpjQQ.

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Eat Strawberries, Protect Your Stomach?

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Strawberries may not be in season right now, but there's good reason to eat this berry year round, especially if you drink alcohol or are prone to stomach ulcers. A new study has found strawberries to have a protecting effect on stomachs damaged by alcohol. 

The new study was published in the journal PLoS ONEand used rats to see how strawberry extract affected stomach health . Researchers found that the rats who had strawberries for 10 days before being given alcohol had fewer stomach ulcerations than those rats who didn't ingest any strawberry extract.

Researchers believe the positive effects of strawberries are linked to their high amounts of antioxidants and phenolic compounds (which have anti-inflammatory and anti-clotting properties), and that the berries activate important enzymes of the body, according toScienceDaily. Researchers guess that the positive effects would be seen in humans, too, though more research is needed.

It's important to note that eating strawberries only after having alcohol didn't help to improve the health of the stomach. Nor did strawberries have any effect on intoxication. To get the most benefit, you should make berries a part of your regular diet and — of course — drink only in moderation. 

How often do you eat strawberries?

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The Girl with Dragon Tattoo collection: H&M helps you rage against men and look cute in bars

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THE look this summer is barely contained rage against rapists, neo-Nazis and, well, men in general.

Fashion chain H&M, the home of hip clothes that are destined for the recycling bin in just a matter months, has decided that every woman wants to be Lisbeth Salander, the permanently p***ed off hacker in Stieg Larsson's best-seller The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo.

H&M will be promoting a new collection designed by Trish Summerville, who created Salander's outfits in David Fincher's upcoming film version of Larsson's book.

Trish Summerville on her new collection: Watch the video below

It will have "the dark urban feel that defines" Salander's character - which means leather jackets, torn jeans and slouchy hoodies, all in muddy colours.

So you can channel your hatred for all men while still looking cute at the bar.

Rooney Mara, who plays the title role in the film, is shown in posters and trailers for the movie sporting numerous body piercings and a big tattoo.

Think twice before getting the full look.

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo comes out in Australian cinemas in January.

Rooney Mara

ENGLISH: H&M Dragon Tattoo Collection by Trish Summerville

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New York Doll: Interview With Iris Apfel

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Apfel with her husband, Carl, at a gala dinner in Miami, 2008

The socialite Iris Apfel has always dressed on the eccentric side of showy. Now that she's 90, isn't she tempted to tone it down just a little?

She may be 90 but Iris Apfel is busier than most people a quarter of her age. 'I'm a geriatric starlet,' says the woman whose exuberant outfits and flying-saucer glasses have turned her into a style icon, with major art galleries frequently given over to shows of her clothes.

It takes six months of negotiations just to organise a meeting with her. 'I keep saying I'll get less busy, but I'm crazy,' she says in one of our countless phone conversations.

'I just do too many things. Let me look at my diary - I have a Japanese magazine coming this week, then Martha Stewart wants me on her show next week. Then I have trips to Texas and Boston - I can't possibly arrange anything at the moment, call me back next month.'

 

Iris Apfel

Iris Apfel

When we finally seem to have a firm date and I arrive in New York she makes me ring her at two-hour intervals throughout the day, pushing the time later and later. Finally, at 6pm, she says that she cannot meet me 'because the weather is so disgusting'.

This argument is somewhat illogical as she has no plans to leave her apartment anyway, and fortunately she relents when I tell her I am not going to be back in New York for a while.

When Apfel opens the door to her apartment in a beautiful Park Avenue building she is wearing an unremarkable outfit of jeans and a grey sweater: 'The jeans are from - what's that cheap store? Old Navy - but the sweater is cashmere.'

The clothes serve as little more than a palette for her extraordinary jewellery - this week yoox.com launches its Iris Apfel collection of jewellery; some inspired and designed by Apfel, some from her personal treasure-trove.

Today she is wearing a big-beaded Afghan crimson and silver necklace and huge hand-painted wooden lacquered square bracelets that look so heavy I wonder how she can lift her arms. 'Understated jewellery is not for me. It's too itsy-bitsy. My husband is lucky as I've never had a yen for real jewels.'

She leads the way through the apartment, which is like a museum stuffed with beautiful old Venetian chairs and paintings, including a possible Velázquez ('I don't want to find out if it's really a Velázquez because then I'll just be nervous about it').

But mixed with the English needlepoint and the imposing chandelier from Naples are elements of kitsch such as a turquoise stuffed parrot and a bowl of fake fruit. 'I mix everything up. A museum curator once said to me that there is a great jazz component to the way I do things because good jazz is improvisation and draws elements from all different cultures. And that's the way I do everything - the way I dress and decorate.'

Although she is hailed as one of the hippest women, with a sense of style to which many younger celebrities aspire, in many ways Apfel harks back to a lost era. 'I live in the Dark Ages, the 17th century. Actually, I would have loved to be in Paris in the early 20th century when the Ballets Russes were there and Chanel was designing.'

 

wearing Gucci trousers at home in New York in the 1980s

wearing Gucci trousers at home in New York in the 1980s

Yet when people ask her for style tips she is flummoxed. Lindsay Lohan once asked Apfel to be her fashion guru - Apfel declined. 'I can't tell people how to have style. No amount of money can buy you style. It's just instinctive.

'You can't try to be somebody you're not; that's not style. If someone says, "Buy this, you'll be stylish," you won't be stylish because you won't be you. You have to learn who you are first and that's painful.'

When I ask her if she has learnt who she is, she answers enigmatically. 'I don't try to intellectualise about it because it tightens you up. I think you have to be loose as a goose.'

Apfel misses the New York of the 1950s. 'It was fabulous then, everyone looked beautiful,' she says in her low drawling voice that sounds like it comes out of a 1950s Hollywood film.

'Now when I walk down Fifth Avenue in the summertime I just want to throw up. It seems that the fatter and uglier people are, the fewer clothes they wear. The shorts and flip-flops and tight jeans on butts that go from here to Poughkeepsie.'

She shudders. 'I always say they should put people in jail for wearing clothes like that. Especially stretch jeans over size 10 [a UK size 14] - they should be outlawed. Ten years ago people were starting to look like slobs in New York, now it's an epidemic.'

If this is what she thinks of people in New York, I wonder what opinion she has of street fashion in London. 'I haven't been in London for some years but the last time I was there they looked fuddy-duddy and school-marmish, yes, but not slobby. And then there are the wonderful eccentrics like the kids on Carnaby Street or the punks or whatever the heck they are.'

Nevertheless, her heart is in New York City. 'I love London and Paris; they're very sophisticated, but not like New York. If you can't find it in New York, it doesn't exist.'

Born Iris Barrel, she grew up in Queens. She was an only child, her father a decorator and her mother the owner of a fashion boutique. 'My mother was quite a clothes-horse and she loved to dress me up so I became rather enamoured of clothes.'

 

Middle Eastern cruise in the 1970s

Middle Eastern cruise in the 1970s

She describes an occasion when her mother arranged for her to have a formal portrait taken. 'I had all these romantic ideas but the truth is I looked like a piece of clay that had to be sculpted.'

Her father was a maverick. 'He didn't care what anyone thought and he didn't care about clothes. My mother would have to drag him into a shop. He'd put one leg in a suit and say, "I'll take it."

'She'd get crazy and say, "You don't even know if it fits." He'd say, "Oh, it will be all right, let's go." I sometimes do the same. If I see something that I like and the price is good and the fabric is beautiful I say, "Oh, well, if it doesn't fit I can make pillows out of it."'

As a teenager, says Apfel, she was fat. 'I was very unhappy so I ate and ate and ate and no clothes would fit me. My mother used to tear her hair out when she took me shopping. I used to die because my mother had a gorgeous figure and the salesgirl would always say to me, "Why don't you be slim like your mother?"'

She started smoking, which helped her lose weight. 'I used to smoke like a fiend. I smoked four packs a day. I never do anything half-arsed, shall we say, but I stopped because I felt I was getting to be an addict. I've got very good willpower.'

She became friends with Duke Ellington, whom she first met when she was writing a paper on jazz. Hearing he was in town, she went to see him. 'I got all dressed up; I think I had more nerve than brains. I went backstage and knocked on the door and Ray Nance [Ellington's trumpeter] came out and said, "Lordy, lordy, who's your tailor?"

'I explained my mission and he said he was sure the Duke would see me. The Duke couldn't have been nicer and said he'd introduce me to all the greats in Chicago. My mother was very dubious, so I told her, "He's the most elegant gentleman." She said, "I don't give a damn how elegant he is, you're not going to Chicago." But I did.'

Her first job was as a copywriter for Women's Wear Daily. 'I was a copy girl and I made the magnificent sum of $15 a week. Eventually I worked out that I would never get anywhere there. All the women who worked there were middle-aged and I said to myself, "They're too old to have babies and go on maternity leave and too young to die, so you'd better get your butt out of here."'

 

Apfel’s mother on a European cruise in the 1970s

Apfel’s mother on a European cruise in the 1970s

So she quit and started work for the illustrator Bob Goodman. 'He paid me $35 a week, which was more than all the different boys I went out with.'

Iris played the field until she met Carl Apfel at a resort on Lake George in upstate New York. 'He told my friend that he thought I was very attractive if only I would go and have my nose fixed. So I said, "You can tell him to go fly a kite."

'Anyway, some weeks later I came home from work and the phone was ringing off the hook. He said, "That was a stunning outfit you were wearing today and I particularly loved your hat" - he had been on a bus on Fifth Avenue and had seen me on the sidewalk.

'Anyway, I was very busy and the first date I could give him was about six weeks later on Columbus Day.' After that, things moved quickly. 'Thanksgiving he proposed, Christmas I got my ring, Washington's birthday we married and our honeymoon was over on St Patrick's Day.'

I ask what it was about him that made him different from her other boyfriends. 'He was very easy and very funny and we just hit it off. First of all he ordered my dinner. I have so many decisions to make all day long that I really don't want to decide what I have to eat, too. So it was perfect.'

Together they launched a textile firm, Old World Weavers, which designed fabrics for the White House and clients such as Estée Lauder, and Iris became a fixture on the New York social scene, often photographed in the style section of the New York Times.

Her outrageous outfits and huge glasses made her instantly recognisable. 'When I needed to wear glasses, I decided I'd wear glasses. All the better to see you with.'

She and Carl ran their company until they retired in 1992. Then in 2005 Harold Koda, the curator of the Costume Institute in New York, asked if she would agree to an exhibition of her jewellery and accessories.

'It didn't start out as a fashion show,' says Apfel, 'but he decided that to show accessories out of context didn't make much sense so he asked if I could spare maybe five outfits… I said yes, so they went through all my closets, all the drawers, all the boxes, all the armoires, under the bed, everywhere and they go woowoowoooo [she flaps her arms up and down]. Finally they ended up with 82 outfits. It was insanity but the show was such a big smash.'

The exhibition transformed her from a quirky eccentric into a fashion paragon. Since then versions of the show have appeared at museums around America and Apfel's life has changed utterly:

'I've always been well known in my field but since the first show it's gotten insane. I'm very grateful at my stage of the game to have all this happen. It makes me laugh and laugh; it's ridiculous, because underneath I'm the same person I've always been.'

Certainly she remains as outspoken as ever: 'Most of the young people today look dreadful. And celebrities look even worse. They don't know what to do with themselves.

'At the Golden Globes and Oscars they all look alike - it seems like they're all wearing the same nightgown and this year nobody had any jewellery at all. Only Helen Mirren was wearing a beautiful necklace, but even she got it wrong because the necklace just ruined the dress. I think the designer must have wanted to kill himself when he saw her.'

I ask if she is ever tempted to say something to someone who she thinks looks dreadful. 'Oh, now that would be horrible. It's a free country - if you want to look like a freak, that's your problem.'

Source:  http://www.newsnow.lk/lifestyle/58-fashion/1321-new-york-doll-interview-with-the-socialite-iris-apfel

World Guide Awards 2011: The Winners

Sri Lanka-based Noel Bruno Dawson has won the top prize

 

A great guide has the power to turn your trip into the experience of a lifetime. Passionate, caring, tireless – guides have always been the unsung heroes of the travel world. Paul Morrison, co-founder of Wanderlust magazine (and my late husband), was a firm believer in the importance of good guides and, after his death in 2004, I set up the World Guide Awards in his honour. They are the only awards of their kind and are designed to provide a long-lasting way of recognising some truly special people.

Now in their sixth year, the awards are going from strength to strength. We were inundated with thousands of nominations and have whittled them down to one incredible winner and two exceptional runners-up.

How the winners were chosen

Earlier this year, we asked readers of Wanderlust and Telegraph Travel whether you had travelled with an outstanding guide. We gradually worked the nominees down to a shortlist of five, then invited your testimonials. The judges then met to decide on the winner and two runners-up.

The winner, Noel Bruno Dawson, announced last week at the Royal Geographical Society in London, was awarded a £5,000 bursary. The silver award winner, Gaetano Barone, scooped a £2,500 bursary and the bronze winner, Kevin Albin, a £1,500 bursary. All the money will be spent on worthwhile projects of their choices. Further prizes were provided by Swarovski Optik (www.swarovskioptik.com), Nomad Travel Store (www.nomadtravel.co.uk) and Powertraveller (www.powertraveller.com).

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Flip Flop Feet!

Anyone who has ever pounded the pavement in strappy sandals knows that, by dusk, your soles are the color of the asphalt you've been strolling. We won't even get into the "tan line" of grime around your ankle strap.

After finding out what your feet have picked up -- a seriously unappetizing stew of germs -- you may be ready to ditch your Havaianas for a pair of knee-high boots.

"When walking on the street in something like a flip-flop, you are exposing your foot to vomitus, human waste, dog feces, sputum expectorated by people -- some of whom may have microbacteria -- and a wide variety of other things like food or liquids that have been brewing in the hot sun," says Philip Tierno, Ph.D., director of clinical microbiology and immunology at New York University Langone Medical Center and author of "Secret Life of Germs."

The kind of cooties you find on city streets, he says, include norovirus (that scourge of cruise ship passengers), staph aureus, types of strep, E. coli and drug-resistant superbugs like Pseudomonas, Klebsiella pneumonia and MRSA. "The summer heat," he adds, "acts like an incubator."
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If your feet have cuts or open blisters, you may unknowingly be laying out a welcome mat to the viruses and bacteria stuck to the street. But even if you're abrasion-free, you can transfer all of that nasty stuff the moment you handle your flip-flops when you slip them off or drop them in your bag to change into heels.

Explains Tierno, "You're exposed to something even worse -- these organisms on your hands." According to Dr. Tierno, 80 percent of all infectious diseases are transmitted by direct or indirect touching -- kissing or picking up a dirty shoe -- then touching your eyes, nose or mouth.

But before you reserve a spot in the nearest plastic bubble, there is good news. "Your skin is built to protect you from getting infected by its very nature," says Jeannette Graf, M.D., assistant clinical professor of dermatology at Mount Sinai Medical Center in Manhattan. The dead skin layer known as the stratum corneum is thickest on the hands and feet and is considered your body's first line of defense. "Our skin makes antimicrobial peptides that fight against bacteria and viruses and lots of different pathogens," explains Dr. Graf.

And there are several steps you can take to prevent your tootsies from transferring germs to your hands. Shoe designer Matt Bernson, whose creations are worn by actress Amanda Seyfried and model Gisele Bündchen, has a suggestion for the legions of women who swap out their shoes when they arrive at work or home: "Carry your shoes in a shoe bag when they are in your purse."

To banish germs, use good old-fashioned soap and water. "You want to wash your feet when you get home," says Dr. Graf. Or in a pinch, apply an antibacterial hand sanitizer on your feet, she suggests. Also, park a pair of slippers by the front door. "In general, it's not a good idea to come into your home with dirty shoes that have walked on every known substance and schmear it all over your house," says Tierno.
clean feet!!!


You can help keep your skin's protective barrier in peak condition by exfoliating dead skin cells and slathering on moisturizer, says Dr. Graf. Gently smooth rough spots and calluses with a foot file or pumice stone, such as Sally Hansen's Prep your Pedi Foot File or Pumice Foot Polish -- not with one of those callus razors, says Ji Baek, founder of RescueBeauty.com and author of Rescue Your Nails. "They're illegal in many states," says Baek, and they can cut your foot way too deeply. "It's better to use a foot file and liquid soap when you get home at night."

Or try a homemade foot soak and scrub. Donna Perillo of Manhattan's Sweet Lily Natural Nail Spa adds warm citrus juice (grapefruit or orange) to a foot soak. "The acidity kind of eats at the grime," she says. Follow that up with an all-natural sugar scrub, which you can make at home using granulated sugar, olive oil and your favorite essential oil. And then apply moisturizer.

Dr. Graf recommends using a lotion with skin-smoothing lactic or salicylic acid or urea before bed each night. Or you can lightly coat your feet with Vaseline petroleum jelly and then slip on cotton socks, such as Moisture Jamzz socks to protect your sheets. You'll wake up with super-soft, germ-free feet.

Leopard trend

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From Mary-Kate Olsen’s vintage topper to Kate Bosworth’s black-and-white Proenza Schouler mini, animal prints add instant sex-appeal to coats, dresses, shoes, and more.

Leopard print clothing is a fashion trend this season, and this will continue to be fashionable trend for some time. One way that the animal print trend is developing is that it now includes other animal skins, for example, zebra, cheetah, ocelot, jaguar, cow, giraffe and tiger. Another way that this trend is growing in momentum is that more and more accessories have animal print textures.

The secret of wearing an animal based pattern fashion trend successfully, is to relate the volume of pattern to your personality. If you are normally an understated dresser, then select just a small leopard print item. It may be as small as a money clutch purse like the Blumarine model left is holding. Or, it could be as lavish as the Blumarine designer coat or boots she is wearing.

If the full-on glamour look of Catwoman, with shades of the legendary Eartha Kitt at her most feline, is not for you, then leopard print shoes or bag can be the perfect answer. George at Asda - Moda animal print cardigan Autumn 2008 trends.In fact you’ll be amazed how many items in your wardrobe can appear instantly updated with an animal print clutch, or given an instant lift with some snazzy footwear.

If you prefer just to flirt with animal prints as a passing fashion fad, then pop this inexpensive little cardigan into your weekly shopping trolley at Asda. It would swiftly uplift basic trousers, skirt or shift dress into Autumn 2008.

Bolder, fashion forward, women will opt for a leopard coat or thigh high boots, or a body hugging animal print shift dress. The latter will all draw attention to you, just be sure you want that attention!

Interestingly the Blumarine coat and boots by Anna Molinari are made from stencilled goat and then trimmed with a silver fox fur trim. If not an expert or wearer of real fur, it is hard to tell if the regular pattern of the animal print is leopard, ocelot, jaguar or cheetah. Unless you have skin references from real animal images then animal prints can be confusing. In the animal world there are different breeds and the skin markings vary. Fake furs today and stencilled skins of domestic animals offer a sustainable alternative to the killing of such beautiful animals.

We have a chart showing tiger patterns. While no two tigers have the exact same pattern, there are similarities.

In the last few years we have seen more variety emerging in animal prints, and manufacturers produce yet more patterns by scaling them up or down in size.

The easiest way to adopt the animal theme is to buy a piece of jewellery or a bag. An animal styled ring, cuff or snakeskin style bangle is a fashion trend in itself.

Zebra Print HandbagsZebra print fashion trends on fashion-era - Cici shoes and bag - Moda in Pelle

While leopard has been the most frequently used animal print, now in the Autumn of 2008 tiger, spotted cow, and particularly, zebra print handbags are growing in popularity. As with the bags shown above the tan/beige colouration combination will vary.

Why Buy New Clothes?

Fashion evolves at the speed of light. Skinny jeans looked like they would rule forever, but their dominance is now threatened by wide pants. Fashionistas who cannot bear to miss out on the next-big-thing have no choice but to use their last penny on shopping.

Gladly, two saviours named ‘rent’ and ‘reform’ are here to help you stay fashionable and still keep most of your money, even during this economic slump.

In an outfit-rental shop near Seoul’s Gangnam subway station, an anchorwoman-wannabe was trying on a white jacket. She said, "I passed the first camera test wearing a dress suit from this shop, so I’m here to borrow another one for my next interview," she said. "Some of the other girls buy suits every time there is a test but, believe me, it can cost you a house."

At clothes-rental shops in Seoul, which are concentrated in the posh southern district of Gangnam-gu, it takes but about 50,000 won (US$46) for a makeover. If you take out a membership—a one-time down payment of 100,000 won ($87) that’s refundable if you decide to get out—some clothes are even cheaper. Most shops offer a selection of anywhere from hundreds to tens of thousands of items, including shoes and bags.

For those who need party outfits, Nonhyeon-dong is the place to go. There are more than 20 shops where you can rent designer goods like Gucci, Chanel and Valentino.

The clothes-renting business started more than five years ago. But, before last year, these places catered mainly to singers and bar hostesses at nearby clubs, and most of the clothes were very revealing.

But, thanks in part to the increase in Western-style parties, the kinds of customers have been changing.

"The general public takes up about 15 per cent of the market now, and is continuously increasing," said Lee Bum-kyu, who is CEO of LUX, a rental shop in Yeoksam-dong.

Rental shops are very busy on Fridays because party girls come in crowds to rent dresses. "I can borrow 20 pieces of clothes for money that’s not enough to buy one," exclaimed a regular customer. At LUX, the fee to rent one dress is normally 50,000 won ($43), but paying a flat sum of 500,000 won ($432) allows a customer to rent 20 times.

Rental shops are also generous with the after-service. If you get your dress ripped while partying too hard, the dress shop will bring another dress to the club door.

The shops also have professional coordinators on hand to help customers choose their outfits. "People now are very interested in new trends," said Lee, "The first thing they ask is ‘What’s hot now?’ Some even demand very specific items they want."

Another trend that is taking root is ‘clothes reform’. There are many online communities now where you can learn about the basics of clothing repair. Skillful bloggers upload video clips demonstrating how to "reform" on the Internet. Before-and-after photos of their renewed clothes are quite useful.

Those who lack the skill to fix up clothes by themselves can of course turn to professional reform shops. For example, the area around Ewha Woman’s University in central Seoul, which is known for its many low-priced and fashionable boutiques, there are more than a dozen such shops.

Most of them have been there for a long time and are famous for their excellence at repair. "Older women who used to be students around here still come to fix their clothes," said Lee Jeong-se, the CEO of Young Reform.

Customers these days visit not only to get their clothes fixed, but to change them into a new, trendier design.

"This pattern is back in style. I just need to tighten it a little," said a college student who brought her mother’s checkered skirt. It only cost her 10,000 won ($85) to take home a new skirt.

Costs vary, depending on the complexity of the job and the design and texture of the clothes. Some shops also deliver.

Ill health linked to trauma in childhood

Children who are abused, lose a parent, or suffer other hardships may be at increased risk of chronic health conditions later in life, according to an international study.

Looking at over 18,000 adults from 10 countries, the study found that those who said they'd faced childhood adversities such as abuse, the death of a parent, or a parent's alcohol or drug abuse, had higher risks of heart disease, arthritis, asthma, diabetes and other conditions.

Depression

The same pattern was seen among people who said they'd suffered from depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions before the age of 21, the study, published in the Archives of General Psychiatry, said.

The findings do not prove that serious stresses in childhood directly cause poor physical health later on, but there are a number of reasons the two could be connected, said lead researcher Kate Scott from New Zealand's University of Otago.

"Early adverse experiences can shape people's behaviour and lifestyle," she said, noting that some people may end up smoking, drinking or over-eating as a way of dealing with the stresses of those childhood experiences. Similarly, young people with depression or other mental health disorders may learn to use smoking or drinking as a way to self-medicate.

"So both early-life adversities and mental disorders may independently influence health-related behaviour," Scott said, adding that it's also possible that lasting and severe childhood stress may have more direct biological effects.

"When the stress is ongoing, such as in long-term childhood maltreatment, then there can be health consequences of those (stress hormones) being consistently elevated," she added.

Her team found that participants who reported at least three childhood adversities had higher risk of all six physical health problems that the study assessed. In particular, they had twice the risk of heart disease.

Similar findings were seen among adults who said they'd had mental health conditions before age 21, especially depression, post-traumatic stress disorder or panic disorders.

Their risks of heart disease, asthma, arthritis and chronic back pain or headaches were up to 66pc higher than risks in adults who reported no early mental health disorders.

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Girls now eight times more likely to live to 100 than 80 years ago

A baby girl born today is eight times more likely to live to 100 than one born 80 years ago, new figures indicate.

The analysis also shows that 20 year-olds are three times more likely to reach 100 than their grandparents, and twice as likely as their parents.

The rapidly ageing population in the UK and Ireland suggests that by 2066 there will be more people than ever before hitting 100.

A man born in 1931 only has a 2.5 per cent chance of reaching 100, while a woman has a 5.1 per cent chance. But the rapidly changing life expectancy is reflected in the statistics for 2011. A girl born this year has a 33.7 per cent chance of reaching 100, while a boy has a 26 per cent chance of doing so.

The figures also show that a boy born in 1961 has a 10 per cent chance of reaching his centenary, while a girl born in the same year has a 16 per cent chance of living to 100.

A man born in 1991 has a 19.2 per cent of getting to 100, while a woman has a greater chance at 26.5 per cent.

Actuarial estimates of life expectancy, which guide pension calculations, are often underestimates which cause problems when people plan for their retirement.

However, the chances of reaching 100 decrease each year as you grow older, but then start getting better again from the age of 83, according to the figures released by the British government.

At 83, you have on average a 7.2 per cent chance of getting to three figures. At 85, the chances are 7.4 per cent; at 90 it is 9.3 per cent and if you survive until 99, your chance of reaching 100 is 67.6 per cent.

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Doom creator John Carmack: violent video games reduce real-world aggression

John Carmack, one of the software developers behind the classic computer game Doom, says that violent games reduce aggression.

His comments fly in the face of widespread media scares linking violent computer games with real-life violence. But the scientific evidence for such a link is inconclusive, say researchers.

Mr Carmack, speaking to computer game trade magazine IndustryGamers, said: "I never took seriously the violence in video games debate. It was basically talking points for people to get on CNN.

"I really think, if anything, there is more evidence to show that the violent games reduce aggression and violence. There have actually been some studies about that, that it’s cathartic. If you go to QuakeCon and you walk by and you see the people there [and compare that to] a random cross section of a college campus, you’re probably going to find a more peaceful crowd of people at the gaming convention. I think it’s at worst neutral and potentially positive."

In recent weeks, the link between violent computer games and violence has been brought to the fore after one was cited by Anders Behring Breivik, the man behind the recent Norway killings, as "training". Breivik said in his 1,500 page "manifesto": “I just bought [Call of Duty] Modern Warfare 2, the game. It is probably the best military simulator out there and it’s one of the hottest. I see MW2 more as part of my training-simulation than anything else.”

The evidence linking violent computer games to real-world aggression is controversial. One 2006 meta-analysis - collating information from earlier studies - found that they "provided no support for the hypothesis that violent video game playing is associated with higher aggression." A later one, published last year in Psychological Bulletin, found the opposite, suggesting that the evidence "strongly suggests that exposure to violent video games is a causal risk factor for increased aggressive behavior, aggressive cognition, and aggressive affect". However, that study was itself criticised for including studies that "do not relate well to serious aggression", as well as a "biased" sample of unpublished studies.

Psychology researchers at Huddersfield University have suggested that the emphasis on violent computer games is missing the point. Dr Simon Goodson, who with his colleague Dr Sarah Pearson compared brain activity in people playing different genres of games, said: “There was an assumption among reports that because a game didn’t include any violence that it wouldn’t make people aggressive. But just look at people who play Tetris and how angry they get.

“We looked at a violent game and a driving game. We found that driving made people far more emotionally aroused than the violent one, so we thought we should check it out. We did this on a bigger scale and indeed found that driving makes you more emotionally aroused than shooting something.”

They found similar responses with football games: “Once again, a sporting game made people far more emotionally aroused and aggressive than other genres. In fact we’ve had people swearing at us, swearing at the game, swearing at the referee. If you watch a clip of England fans when they lost to Germany in the World Cup, their reactions are similar to the behaviour of the game player.”

In June, the US Supreme Court ruled that a California law barring the sale of violent video games - defined as those depicting the “killing, maiming, dismembering or sexually assaulting an image of a human being” - was unconstitutional, breaching the right to free speech.

Explaining the judgment, Justice Antonin Scalia said: “Grimm's Fairy Tales, for example, are grim indeed. As her just desserts for trying to poison Snow White, the wicked queen is made to dance in red hot slippers 'til she fell dead on the floor.

“Before video games came cheap novels depicting crime, motion pictures, comic books, television and music lyrics - all of which were blamed by some for juvenile delinquency.”

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Curse of the smart phone . . . and adults are as guilty as children

The rise of the smartphone has led to an increase in what has long been considered a social faux pas of the highest order, using a phone during a film or a play. And adults are now almost as guilty of it as teenagers.

A report published yesterday showed that one in four teenagers and almost one in five adults admitted using their smartphone during a performance.

Ofcom, the British communications watchdog, conducted research into how mobile technology was changing habits. People with ordinary mobile phones were far less likely to keep them turned on during a play or film, Ofcom found.

It said the propensity for people to use their phones to surf the internet or post messages on Twitter raised issues of “etiquette and modern manners”.

The watchdog found that 27 per cent of teenagers used their smartphones — multifunctional devices allowing access to the internet — in venues where they have been asked to turn them off. Almost 20 per cent of adults also said that they were likely to use their smartphones secretly in supposedly quiet venues. James Thickett, the director of research for Ofcom, said the high level of smartphone use in venues such as theatres “raises an issue about social etiquette and modern manners and the degree to which we as a society are tolerant of this behaviour”.

Phones going off in the theatre have in recent years become an annoyance for actors. Last month Simon Callow, the actor, said it takes an hour to recover after a phone goes off in a theatre.

Mr Thickett said: “I think what we have found before is that teenagers have always been more likely to use mobile phones in cinemas and theatres. What we are finding now is that for smartphone users, it is much, much higher, but adult smartphone users as well. So it is not just about adults and teenagers having different values, it is about technology driving the values towards the way you behave in social situations,” he said. The report found that one in four adults and almost half of all teenagers — defined as 12 to 15 year-olds — own a smartphone.

Mr Thickett said smartphones have also altered the work-life balance, with one in four users saying that they would take work-related phone calls while on holiday, compared with just 16 per cent of regular mobile phone users. Ofcom’s Communications Market Report found that nearly two-thirds of teenagers were “highly addicted” to smartphones, with half admitting using them even in the lavatory. One third of teenagers said that they were likely to use a smartphone during meals, while four in 10 said they answered their phone if it woke them at night.

The phones have also significantly affected how people use leisure time. Almost a quarter of teenagers said they watched less television due to having a smartphone, while 15 per cent say that they read fewer books because of it.

“The rapid growth in the use of smartphones – which offer internet access, emails and a variety of internet-based applications – is changing the way that many of us, particularly teenagers, act in social situations,” said Mr Thickett.

Smartphone use is skewed towards young males in higher social-economic groups. However, one in 10 Britons over the age of 55 owns one. BlackBerries are the most popular smartphones among teenagers and students, with their free messaging service, while iPhones are the most popular among adults.

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It's official - anorexia is now linked to infertility

Women with a history of anorexia or bulimia may take longer to get pregnant, according to new research.

A study of more than 11,000 women found that 39.5pc of those with a history of anorexia and bulimia took longer than six months to conceive, compared to 25pc of women in the general population.

They were also more than twice as likely as women without a history of either disorder to need treatment to help them conceive (6.2pc versus 2.7pc).

However, overall, they were no more likely to take longer than 12 months to conceive than other women.

Reality TV star Chantelle Houghton recently revealed that years of crash dieting have left her infertile at just 27.

"Because of my obsession with food and my crash- dieting when I had bulimia, I've ruined my chances of having a baby naturally," she confessed to Heat magazine. The study was carried out by experts at King's College London.

They found that women with a history of anorexia or bulimia were more likely to have unplanned pregnancies and to experience negative feelings when they found out they were pregnant.

While 71pc of all women were overjoyed or pleased on discovering their pregnancy, those with anorexia and bulimia were more than twice as likely to say 'motherhood means personal sacrifice'. They were also more than twice as likely (9.8pc versus 3.8pc) to report feeling unhappy when they found out they were pregnant.

All women in the study were asked to complete questionnaires when they were 12 and 18 weeks pregnant.

Of the group, 171 women had anorexia at some point in their life, 199 had bulimia and 82 had suffered from both conditions.

Lead author Abigail Easter, from the Institute of Psychiatry at King's, said: "This research highlights that there are risks to fertility associated with eating disorders.

"However, the high rates of unplanned pregnancies in women with a history of anorexia suggest that women may be underestimating their chances of conceiving.

"Women planning a pregnancy should ideally seek treatment for their eating disorder symptoms prior to conception."

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Some rays of hope for the natural tan

Ever since Brigitte Bardot's portrayal of a young girl who loves nude sunbathing in the 1956 blockbuster And God Created Woman, bronzed skin has stood for sexual allure and beauty, as well as good health.

But while we love to get a tan, there's huge pressure to apply high-factor sunscreen -- or to get the bronzing without the sun with a fake tan.

Beneath this apparent orthodoxy, there's an acrimonious debate between those who insist sunshine is a toxic force against which we need constant protection and those who accuse big business of promoting "sun phobia" for commercial reasons, thus putting us at risk of a vitamin deficiency which causes rickets.

Who should we believe? Here's what the experts say on the pros and cons of tanning.

Sunbathing

> How it works

Melanin in the skin absorbs UV radiation in sunlight, thereby changing the colour and eventually the thickness of the skin. Tanning occurs when the skin is exposed to sunlight gradually. Sudden exposure of previously protected skin to strong UV rays causes burning, quickly turning a "milk bottle" into a "lobster".

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Bardot's face in later life.

> Health benefits

Some clinicians insist there is no such thing as a safe suntan and that all sun exposure causes skin cancer as well as ageing and wrinkles.

However, a series of studies have discovered widespread vitamin D deficiency in cloudy Britain. And a growing number of experts say that safe sunbathing has unparalleled health benefits by boosting levels of vitamin D, "the sunshine vitamin", which is formed when bare skin is exposed to sunlight.

As well as helping to build a robust immune system and strong bones, trials suggest it fights off some cancers and depression.

"A sunny holiday with plenty of opportunity for safe and careful sunbathing is excellent for everyone's health -- including those with pale skins -- provided they are careful," says Oliver Gillie, health campaigner and author of Sunlight Robbery. "The evidence suggests that the best approach is to enjoy regular sunshine throughout the year, so that you don't suddenly expose your body to UV rays."

Cancer specialist Professor Tim Oliver, consultant oncologist at Barts and the London Hospital, says: "The anti-sun skin cancer message and the trend for young people to play indoors, rather than running around outside, is creating the potential for a health crisis. We are simply not getting enough sunlight to make the vitamin D we need to stay healthy."

> Health risks:

Sunburn is almost universally regarded as a major risk for skin cancer. "You shouldn't throw yourself at a beach once a year and let yourself burn," says Professor Oliver. "The skin cancer message is right: melanomas or tumours on the skin are found on people who have burnt in the sun, particularly when young."

Sunbeds

> How they work

UV tanning equipment mimics the spectrum of light from sunshine.

"Around 90pc mimic UVB and UVA rays in the summer sun, with new skin-sensor technology introduced in larger chains, providing tailored UV balance, based on measurements of skin type and tone and melanin levels," says Adam Mooney, chief executive of The Tanning Shop.

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Donna Ballantyne, from Bothwell, Lanarkshire, admitted using sunbeds until she "burnt my back and shoulders to the point they were sore". She suffered 19 melanomas over 10 years and died at the age of just 39 in June of this year.

> Health benefits

Sunbeds are now much better regulated, with the introduction of maximum "irradiance level", roughly that of the midday sun in the Mediterranean. Within this safe context, there is substantial evidence that moderate use of sunbeds has the same health benefits as exposure to sunshine.

A recent study showed that sunbed users have the highest vitamin D levels of any group in Canada.

"During the winter months, many of us may benefit from the UV lamps used in sunbeds," says Professor Oliver. "Because the whole body is usually exposed, a single five to 10-minute session once every six weeks should be sufficient." >Health risks:

Fears that unsupervised coin-operated sunbed shops have provoked life-threatening "tanorexia" in teenagers led to a UK nationwide ban on under-18s in April.

Fake tans

>How they work

Fake-tan products today contain moisturiser, skin toners, anti-ageing agents and sun protection factor and are available as creams, lotions, sprays, mousses and liquids. But the market still depends on DHA, the protein that turns apples brown when cut in half.

> Worst press

Most female celebrities have been judged and found guilty of orange fake-tan disasters -- including, in the past 12 months, Cheryl Cole, Patsy Kensit and Kelly Brook.

> Health benefits

Today, it's relatively simple to get a healthy streak-free, sun-kissed look. "Use a gradual tan if you have a light skin tone, a spray or mousse for a medium skin tone and a bronzing lotion for dark skin -- and take a picture of yourself with the flash on to make sure the colour is just right," says James Read, celebrity spray-tanner to Lady Gaga.

> Health risks:

None known.


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Dear Rosanna: Will my golfer guy play away?

On learning to trust again, safeguarding a secret, tackling low self-esteem and alternative acne cures

Q My boyfriend is off on a golfing holiday to Florida, to celebrate winning a new work contract. I've asked him to promise not to get up to anything and he has sworn he won't. My dad left my mum after meeting my now stepmum while away on a work trip, so naturally I'm nervous of history repeating itself. I want to trust my boyfriend, but my dad kind of ruined my trust in men when he cheated on my mum.

A you must begin the process of learning to trust men again as it will be difficult for you to enjoy a close and trusting relationship with your boyfriend if you are still stuck in that frame of mind. What happened between your parents was a huge shock for you, but all men definitely do not behave like that. There may have been problems within their relationship that you weren't aware of, and while your dad should never have been unfaithful to his wife, he still has the right to find happiness.

It's highly unlikely that your boyfriend has any intention of ever cheating on you. He has sworn to you that he will remain faithful, and it's so important that you take his word for it. It's incredibly unfair on him to have to feel as though you don't have faith in him.

Relationships absolutely depend on the trust between two people and without that, they have little chance of survival. Try not to worry too much, but do ensure he stays in contact with you while he's gone to ease your mind. Skype is a great, free way of speaking to friends and family when abroad.

Q I confided something shocking from my past to my best friend, and she swore that she would never tell anyone. That was a few years ago, and recently she has been behaving like a prize cow; borrowing money and never repaying it, turning up dead late, and turning every conversation into a long moan about her problems. I would love a little break from her company, but I'm afraid to annoy her in any way in case she tells someone my secret.

A This isn't how a friendship is supposed to be. One of the wonderful aspects of enjoying a close friendship is to be able to share your deepest and most intimate secrets with the other person, secure in the knowledge that the information will never be passed on.

It comes down to basic trust and respect, and to break that is a pretty serious breach of the friendship. It's also likely that you're placing far more importance on the particular piece of shocking information you confided in her, and it may not even occur to her that she could use it against you. It's obviously something that's playing on your mind and your conscience, but my advice is to move on from it

I strongly suggest that you try to shake off this fear envelop- ing you, and speak to your friend about her behaviour. A word of confidence from you that you value her friendship but deserve better treatment, should make the world of difference.

Q I used to be very competitive in sports, work, etc but recent failures have zapped me of my energy when it comes to pushing myself. I was a reasonably fit girl and a high achiever in work but one knock after another now means I am overweight and a temp, having been made redundant. I don't want to bother anyone with these issues as my family and friends think I am strong but I am crying all the time in private and cannot see a way to turn my life around in these straitened times. I don't have a mortgage or credit card bills so I can't understand why I cannot get out from under this black cloud.

A It sounds to me as though you have, for a variety of reasons, taken a huge confidence knock. I believe we go through cycles, and certain difficult situations present themselves to challenge us. We would never grow and develop if we weren't faced with those more adverse stages in life, as well as the positive and uplifting ones.

With some focus and determination, I absolutely believe that you turn your life back around and find the happiness and contentment you seek and deserve. You must not bottle up these feelings and end up sinking lower and lower. Confiding in loved ones can bring great comfort and relief that all is out in the open. Take some time out, if possible, to focus on your goals and what you hope to achieve in a year. Then with their support you can begin to concentrate on losing weight, gaining back some vital self-esteem and searching for your ideal job. Good luck.

Q I've suffered from acne for four years -- I've tried all the over-the-counter treatments and been to see my doctor many times. She said it was mild but persistent, as in low-grade acne -- but none of the antibiotics she prescribed have worked long term. I know it sounds trite but it really gets me down.

A Believe me, there's nothing 'trite' about it. I've had many breakouts in the past, generally caused by stress. People often underestimate the massive implications that stress has on the body's systems and it can seriously throw it out of balance. I think you should firstly assess your lifestyle and diet. Are you under stress? Do you drink plenty of water and focus on eating a balanced diet of primarily fresh, whole foods?

Rather than opting for antibiotics and other medication, I would recommend you visit a practitioner in alternative medicine. Ask questions, pick up information from health food shops and visit reputable websites for remedies that would suit you, your lifestyle and particular condition.

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The curse of the 7-year glitch

Is it the seven-year itch that is to blame for Jennifer Lopez and husband Marc Anthony recently announcing that they are to split after seven years of marriage? Recent divorce statistics in the States show that first marriages are most likely to end up in the divorce courts eight years after a couple say "I do".

The initial separation proceedings are instigated after seven years of marriage.

It seems that for all that has changed about marriage statistics since the 1950s -- the age at which people marry is getting older, and the divorce rate has risen and fallen -- one number has remained static: a couple is most likely to split around the seven-year mark.

Lopez (42) and Anthony (42) became a couple in early 2004 after Lopez broke up with Ben Affleck, and Anthony was divorcing former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres.

They married in a small ceremony in 2004, and have three year-old twins together, Emme and Max.

Is superstar Lopez, who was back in the spotlight this year as an American Idol judge, a victim of the seven-year curse?

It's 56 years since Marilyn Monroe moved into the same apartment building as a happily married man whose wife -- of seven years -- happened to be away for the summer, and The Seven Year Itch, as the film was titled, is still with us.

Reasons given for a couple splitting in and around this time include the stress of caring for young children, the accumulation of bad times, and work and family pressures, all of which tend to build to a boiling point around seven years.

Typically, people who are unhappy with their marriages find that out within the first few years, yet take a few more years to get to the state of divorcing.

Options

Most divorces are instigated by women. The average woman marries in her late 20s or early 30s, and when things go wrong she is likely to think: "I need to get out before I'm too old. I'll have more options if I'm 35 versus 45."

The current understanding of the phrase "seven-year itch" was popularised in 1952, when the late playwright George Axelrod used it as the title of his play about a couple divorcing.

Other couples who seem to have suffered the seven-year itch include Macaulay Culkin (30) and Mila Kunis (27). They never married, yet Culkin, former child star of Home Alone, had set up home with the actress Kunis, who will soon be seen in Friends with Benefits.

The couple, who split in January, were very low key and rarely walked the red carpet together. They first met when Kunis was starring in That 70s Show. Kunis is now one of Hollywood's rising stars, following rave reviews for her appearance in the hit movie Black Swan.

Another Hollywood couple who hit the skids after seven years of marriage is Oscar winner Kate Winslet and director Sam Mendes.

Titanic star Winslet (35) and her ex-husband and American Beauty director Mendes (46) married in May 2003 on the Caribbean island of Anguilla. Their son, Joe, was born seven months later.

The couple split last year and their lawyers insisted that there was no one else involved. A statement said: "The split is entirely amicable and is by mutual agreement. Both parties are fully committed to the future joint parenting of their children."

Expectations

Financial problems can start to rear their head for an average couple after about seven years. The honeymoon period is over and family relationships with children, parents, in-laws, siblings and step-children can all be sources of marital problems.

Problems with sexual frequency, quality and infidelity are also common reasons for marriage failure and divorce. Negative personality traits make a long-term relationship unbearable, and divorce an attractive possibility.

While last but not least, if you want to avoid the seven-year itch, make sure you and your partner have similar lifestyle expectations. Partying all night while the other prefers quiet nights in is quite the passion killer.


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Gamers facing obesity and mental health risks

Parents have been warned of the potential dangers of children watching TV while using other interactive devices.

University researchers said children were often "multi-screen viewing" -- watching TV while at the same time using smartphones, laptops or hand-held gaming devices.

A sedentary lifestyle -- linked to spending lots of time watching TV and playing computer games -- is thought to increase the risk of obesity and mental health problems, researchers at Bristol and Loughborough universities said.

It is now possible to watch TV 'on demand' via the internet, play computer games on laptops, hand-held devices or mobile phones, keep in contact with friends using text, Facebook, Skype and MSN, and to do all this concurrently.

Previous studies have not examined if children take part in multi-screen viewing or their reasons for doing so.

The researchers questioned 63 10 to 11-year-olds and found the children enjoyed looking at more than one screen at a time.

They use a second device to fill in breaks during their entertainment, often talking or texting their friends during adverts or while they were waiting for computer games to load.

The television was also used to provide background entertainment while they were doing something else -- especially if the programme chosen by their family was considered 'boring'.

One study respondents said: "I'm on my DSi and my laptop. On my DSi I'm on MSN and on my laptop I'm on Facebook and then the TV is on."

Dr Russ Jago, from Bristol University's Centre for Exercise, Nutrition and Health Sciences, said: "There is a shortage of information about screen viewing among children, especially given the rapid advances technology and their widespread availability.

portable

"For example, TV programmes are watched on computers, games consoles can be used to surf the internet, smartphones, tablet computers and hand-held games play music, video games provide internet access, and laptop computers can do all of the above."

Dr Jago added: "Health campaigns recommend reducing the amount of time children spend watching TV.

"However, the children in this study often had access to at least five different devices at any one time, and many of these devices were portable."

The research paper is published today in the International Journal of Behavioural Nutrition and Physical Activity.

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Just watching TV too boring for today's children

Children are using up to five screens at a time including mobile phones, laptops, games consoles and television because they are now bored with just focusing on one.

They text friends during advertising breaks, use MSN or Facebook when their parents are watching an adult programme, or play an electronic game while waiting for their laptop to load up.

Health and exercise researchers at Bristol and Loughborough universities, who carried out the research, say campaigns to reduce "screen time" will only ever work if people understand how chlidren now use technology, and why.

To do so they undwertook focus groups with 63 primary school children aged 10 and 11.

Russell Jago, from Bristol University's Centre for Exercise, Nutrition and Health, said: "The children in this study often had access to at least five different devices at any one time, and many of these devices were portable.

"This meant that children were able to move the equipment between their bedrooms and family rooms, depending on whether they wanted privacy or company.

"So simply removing the television from a child's room may not be enough to address the health concerns and we need to work with families to develop strategies to limit the overall time spent multi-screen viewing wherever it occurs within the home."

Of the children, three-quarters had access to a handheld games console like a Nintendo DS, DSi or a Sony PSP, seven in 10 to a laptop and half to a smartphone.

Asked how they used them, one typical response was: "On my DSi I'm on MSN and on my laptop I'm on Facebook and then the TV is on."

Television has now become largely a background activity, except when there is something specific on they want to watch.

The researchers noted: "For many children the television was just used as a method of filling time while they waited for a game to load on the laptop."

The study is published today (Wednesday) in the International Journal of Behavioral Nutrition and Physical Activity.

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